Love as a Commitment Device : Evidence from a Cross-Cultural Study across 90 Countries

Hum Nat. 2024 Dec;35(4):430-450. doi: 10.1007/s12110-024-09482-6. Epub 2024 Dec 27.

Abstract

Given the ubiquitous nature of love, numerous theories have been proposed to explain its existence. One such theory refers to love as a commitment device, suggesting that romantic love evolved to foster commitment between partners and enhance their reproductive success. In the present study, we investigated this hypothesis using a large-scale sample of 86,310 individual responses collected across 90 countries. If romantic love is universally perceived as a force that fosters commitment between long-term partners, we expected that individuals likely to suffer greater losses from the termination of their relationships-including people of lower socioeconomic status, those with many children, and women-would place a higher value on romantic love compared to people with higher status, those with fewer children, and men. These predictions were supported. Additionally, we observed that individuals from countries with a higher (vs. lower) Human Development Index placed a greater level of importance on romantic love, suggesting that modernization might influence how romantic love is evaluated. On average, participants worldwide were unwilling to commit to a long-term romantic relationship without love, highlighting romantic love's universal importance.

Keywords: Emotion; Evolutionary theory; Importance of love; Kephart; Parental Investment theory; Romantic love.

MeSH terms

  • Adolescent
  • Adult
  • Cross-Cultural Comparison*
  • Female
  • Humans
  • Interpersonal Relations*
  • Love*
  • Male
  • Middle Aged
  • Young Adult